Sunday, April 19, 2009

All of that is just unnecessary

As I was staring out into the throng of people at work today, I came to the conclusion about what my next entry should be about. I am going to talk about those specific women who try far too hard to impress guys, or maybe other girls, depending upon their gender preference. However, that is besides the point. I’m not speaking about all women from here on out, but a specific group within the total female population. I noticed as I stared out into the crowds that far too many of these women were covered up with make-up, fake hair, and unnecessarily long nails that were glued on. While they were covered up with all those accessories, they were barely wearing any clothing. Honestly, some of these women did have the physiques to wear such attire and others didn’t. However, the physiques of these women do not warrant them to look trashy. In my opinion, all it does is make them look less respectable. I don’t feel that it takes a thick belt worn as a tube top and fifty pounds of make-up to look alluring. I actually feel quite contrary to that belief.

I, myself, have always been a fan of natural beauty. A woman who can put together a simple outfit that suits her body is very attractive. Additionally, she doesn’t need to apply excessive amounts of cosmetics. More often than not, the makeup hides the essence of who the girl is. Instead, all she needs to do is use the cosmetics to enhance the beauty that she already has. That is much more appealing on a woman than what I witnessed today in the masses. I do not want to be surprised by the person I see once the makeup comes off.

Also, I feel that the way a woman carries herself is adds to her attraction. A woman who walks with confidence and knows that she can handle herself is something that will definitely capture my attention much faster than a short skirt. I’m sure some guys reading this are reading this and saying, “Yeah right,” but it is true. Personally, I don’t want a timid, dependent girl seeking out my attention all the time. I’m not searching for a subservient individual to be with, but instead a counterpart. Some may argue that it is hard to tell a woman’s personality simply based on how she dresses, but I will disagree. A woman who dresses in a sophisticated manner while allowing her beauty to show through effortlessly is one who is confident in who she is and how she carries herself. That is the type of woman that I will seek out. She does not need someone else to validate her own existence.

All in all, I’m actually kind of tired of seeing these trashy women flocking to public places. Sure, they can make for some decent eye candy to some, but most of the time the guys that are ogling them are unable to even have an opportunity with these women. Frankly, those women are searching for the same self absorbed men with no confidence outside of their own physical appearance. (Those types of guys will be covered in a future entry because they often upset me as well.) I’m just hoping that some women can begin to show their natural beauty and not look as trashy.

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